I remember when i first really liked someone this year i would go and tell my friends i ACTUALLY like this girl, it would go something like this "shit Kevin/Zihan i actually like this one i got no idea what to do" and they would just laugh and then i would laugh and i would forget about this person. Then i would go home and after all my extra curricular activites and i would have time to think about nothing but this person. I found the more you think about the person you like the more you seem to get obsessed with them, this obsession is what how most of us define "love" but usually its just a neediness or desperation for this person. Then as this obsessions develops we stop viewing our crush as an actaul person but literally like an object of value or a crutch for our own positive emotions, they just seem perfect in everyway and we stop seeing there flaws and their insecruties.
Biggest Revelation EVER ^
Mindset of the Mountain Monk: Your obsession is not love but more so a neediness where you need a girl to fill the "hole" in your life. What dudes need to realise is girls probably have more problems than you simply coz they tend to overthink. sounds offensive but a girl is basically an "accessory" you should already be happy without the girl, the girl should really just be someone you love spending your time with kinda like a filter which enhances your positive emotions. So the next time you think/say "I actually like this girl" you might as well just say "i'm actaully not going to ever go out with this girl".
SO FOR THE DUDE THAT HAS CHASED HIS CRUSH FOR 4 YEARS LEAVE HER ALONE AND COME BACK FOR HER LATERRRR :D
oh yea listen to taylor swift if you wanna know how a girl thinks - wise monkey kennith
---Lesson Three
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